Gretchen Jakub

I integrated the University of St Andrews in 2025 as a PhD student in the School of Psychology and Neuroscience. My research investigates the cognitive effects of coercive control, exploring how coercive dynamics interact with memory and psychological flexibility to disrupt decision-making processes and perpetuate abusive situations. Through this work, I aim to contribute to a more integrated understanding of the psychological and cogntiive mechanisms that sustain coercive relationships and to inform both clinical and preventative inteventions. 

I have nearly 15 years of experience as a psychotherapist specialising in coercive control, neurodivergence (autism, giftedness, ADHD), and attachment styles. My clinical practice integrates relational, trauma-informed, and neurodiversity-affirming approaches to support individuals navigating complex relational dynamics, emotional regulation differences, and the effets of chronic stress and coercion. I have worked extensively with victims of coercive control and neurodivergent individuals, with a particular focus on the underlying dynamics of attachment. My work aims to help clients develop a deeper understanding of their attachment patterns and cognitive-emotional processes within relationships.